人的一生中，不可能一切事情如愿以償，做到稱心如意，往往會遇到許多無奈。仕途無緣，戀愛失意，婚姻挫折，教子無方，生活困惑，理想與現(xiàn)實(shí)往往存在很大差距。人生，其實(shí)有很多無奈。失去是無奈、錯過是無奈、離別是無奈、忘記是無奈、后悔也是無奈，人生有好多好多的無奈，不勝枚舉。
In one's life, it is impossible for everything to be done as desired, and often encounter many helplessness. There is no chance of the road, love frustration, marriage frustration, godchild inorganic, life confusion, ideal and reality often there is a big gap. Life, in fact, there are a lot of helplessness. Loss is helpless, miss is helpless, leave is helpless, forget is helpless, regret is also helpless, life has a lot of helplessness, not many.
無奈是對生活、對事物產(chǎn)生的一種無可奈何，一種無能為力。這種痛，或許不如傷痛來得直接，但卻是深刻的、久久不能忘懷的!我們苦笑著、掙扎著，卻發(fā)現(xiàn)一切只是蚍蜉撼樹——徒勞無功。于是，我們漸漸對自己產(chǎn)生了懷疑，不，應(yīng)該說是更清醒、更深刻的認(rèn)識，我們發(fā)現(xiàn)了自己的渺小，發(fā)現(xiàn)了世界的殘酷，發(fā)現(xiàn)了很多東西不是我們自己可以掌控和駕馭的。
Helplessness is a kind of helplessness and powerlessness that produces things. This pain, perhaps not as direct as the pain, but it is profound, long time can not be forgotten! We laugh, struggle, but found that everything is just shaking the tree - in vain. So, we gradually have doubts about ourselves, no, should be said to be more sober, more profound understanding, we found their own small, found the cruelty of the world, found a lot of things we can control and control.
我每天都面對許多選擇題或者判斷題，更難的卻是應(yīng)用題，取舍的過程，總是那樣艱難，到底有多少次失落，多少次迷茫?？墒侨兆舆€要繼續(xù)，生活不能放棄!頹廢?因?yàn)檫@個世界崩潰!我曾以為路是沒有盡頭的，每一段路的結(jié)尾必是另一段路的開始?？墒窃谶@里每一條路都擁有各自的軌跡，它們從未交叉，也從未連接。
I face a lot of choice questions or judgment questions every day, more difficult is the application of the problem, the process of trade-offs, always so difficult, how many times lost, how many times confused. But the days will continue, life can not give up! Decadence? Because the world collapses! I thought the road is endless, the end of each road must be the beginning of another road. But here each road has its own trajectory, and they never cross and never connect.
人生就是如此，有許多的無奈，有的人因無奈而奮起;有的人因無奈而消沉;有的人因無奈而感動。正就是這些無奈，組成了一個個不完整的人生。
Life is so, there are many helpless, some people rise up because of helplessness, some people because of helplessness and depression, some people because of helplessness and moved. It is these helplessness that constitutes an incomplete life.
人的一生，在生命的戰(zhàn)場上，一方是我們的心靈，一方是生命的無奈。誰的生命總是鮮花和掌聲?誰的生命總是一帆風(fēng)順?或許，理想和現(xiàn)實(shí)太遙遠(yuǎn)，有無數(shù)呼之欲出，展翅欲飛的美好理想被無情地折斷翅膀;或許，平淡生活的交替輪回，早已把斗志磨碎;或許，命運(yùn)的沉重和無奈，如吹糠見米，播撒著凄然和絕望。但我們得忍讓著，對峙著，默默地進(jìn)行較量，躲避不行，回避不能，不要祈求上帝或他人給你恩賜，只有自己正確的面對。
Man's life, in the battlefield of life, one side is our heart, one side is the helplessness of life. Whose life is always flowers and applause? Whose life is always plain sailing? Perhaps, the ideal and reality are too far away, there are countless desire to fly out, the beautiful ideal of flying wings is ruthlessly broken wings; But we have to endure, confrontation, silently fight, avoid no, avoid can not, do not pray to God or others to give you gifts, only their own right face.
正確面對諸多的無奈，是人生的必然;正確面對諸多的無奈，是人生的態(tài)度;正確面對諸多的無奈，是人生處事的方法。
The correct face of a lot of helplessness is the necessity of life, the correct face of a lot of helplessness, is the attitude of life, the correct face of a lot of helplessness, is the way of life.
人生中有很多的東西是美好的，但不能人人都能擁有。有很多的奢望讓人羨慕，但只能望而止步，那就是人格;有很多現(xiàn)實(shí)的生活讓人向往，但只能去奮斗，那就是目標(biāo);有很多自己愛的人不能相依相偎，但只能相思相戀，那就是錯過;有很多有情人不能終身牽手，但只能苦苦的思念，那就是遺憾;有很多走錯的路不能從頭再來，只能一錯再錯，那就是迷茫;有很多的痛苦無法傾訴，只能去自我安慰，那就是隱痛;有很多的美好生活在向我們招手，但只能去努力奮斗，那就是拼搏!
There are many things in life that are beautiful, but not for everyone. There are many extravagant hopes to make people envious, but can only hope to stop, that is personality; there are many realistic life people yearning, but can only struggle, that is the goal; there are many people they love can not depend on each other, but can only think of each other, that is to miss; there are many lovers can not hold hands for life, but can only bitter miss, that is regret; There are a lot of wrong way can not start all over again, can only be wrong again, that is, confusion;
希望我們要珍惜自己所能夠擁有的東西，要精心經(jīng)營好自己的田園寶地，尤其是在現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中，要胸懷大度，坦然的去面對生活中的每一件事，和善的對待周圍的每一個人，幸福的過好每一天，愉快的度過每一時，把開心融入分分秒秒，有糧千擔(dān)也是一日三餐，有屋百間也是下榻一間。只有這樣，我們才不會感到有太多、太多的遺憾……
Hope that we should cherish what we can have, to carefully manage their own pastoral treasure, especially in real life, to be generous, open to face every thing in life, and kindly treat everyone around, happy every day, happy to spend every time, happy into the minutes and seconds, There are thousands of grain burden is also three meals a day, there are hundreds of houses are also staying one. Only in this way, we will not feel too much, too much regret...
