在我看來,過去的經(jīng)歷讓我懂得珍惜現(xiàn)在,
我不愿在對(duì)將來的憂慮中蹉跎眼前的時(shí)光。
女人的美麗不在于她的服飾、她的珠寶、她的發(fā)型;
女人的美麗必須從她的眼中找到,因?yàn)檫@才是她的心靈之窗與愛心之房。
女人的魅力不在于外表,
真正美麗的折射于一個(gè)女人靈魂深處,在于親切的給與和熱情。
一個(gè)女人的美麗隨著歲月而增長。
——奧黛麗·赫本
修養(yǎng),一個(gè)人的精神長相
奧黛麗·赫本被譽(yù)為女神,
不僅僅因其貌美,貌美的很多,并不能被全世界記?。?div style="height:15px;">
也不是因?yàn)閷W(xué)歷,比她學(xué)歷高的比比皆是。
但她用她的一生詮釋了修養(yǎng)這個(gè)概念,
她的那些耳熟能詳?shù)脑捳Z依然鮮活、激勵(lì)著人們;
它們就是對(duì)修養(yǎng)最好的解讀,
也是做人的最高境界,更是心靈之美與外在之美完美的結(jié)合。
如果大家都能做到,那么我們都是天使。
她告訴我們手是用來勞動(dòng)而不是索取的,腦是用來懺悔而不是偏執(zhí)的。
手不僅能解決自身問題還能幫助別人;
腦不僅能原諒別人還可以讓自身不斷進(jìn)步。
楊絳說過 “讀書是為了遇見更好的自己”,
為了重塑我們自己的精神長相,那就讓我們視野更開闊些,
能以更好的視角來詮釋這個(gè)世界。
什么是修養(yǎng)?當(dāng)我們不再提修養(yǎng)二字,
當(dāng)心中的鮮花和綠草都一一盛開了,修養(yǎng)的春風(fēng)就來了。
因?yàn)樾摒B(yǎng)只需像赫本那樣做好自己就行了,
因?yàn)樾摒B(yǎng),只屬于你一個(gè)人的精神長相。
奧黛麗·赫本經(jīng)典語錄
Elegance is the only beautythat never fades.
優(yōu)雅是唯一不會(huì)褪色的美。
The best thing to hold ontoin life is each other.
生命中最值得珍惜的就是彼此。
The most important thing isto enjoy life,to be happy.
最重要的是享受生活,要快樂。
The beauty of a woman is notin the clothes she wears,
the figure that she carries or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes,
because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where loveresides.
女人的美麗不在于她的服飾、她的珠寶、她的發(fā)型;
女人的美麗必須從她的眼中找到,因?yàn)檫@才是她的心靈之窗與愛心之房。
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode
but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul.
It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that sheshows.
The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years.
女人的魅力不在于外表,
真正的美麗折射于一個(gè)女人靈魂深處,在于親切的給與和熱情。
一個(gè)女人的美麗隨著歲月而增長。
If I'm honest I have to tellyou
I still read fairy-tales andI like them best of all.
如果我夠真誠的話,我會(huì)告訴你,
現(xiàn)在我依然看童話,并且它們是所有書目中我最喜歡的。
I was born with an enormous need foraffection,
and a terrible need to giveit.
我天生就有被愛的需求,
同時(shí)還有個(gè)更強(qiáng)烈的需求——給予愛。
I've been lucky.
Opportunities don't often comealong.
So, when they do, you have to grabthem.
我一直都很幸運(yùn)。
機(jī)會(huì)并不如影相隨,所以當(dāng)它們到來時(shí),你最好抓住它們。
If my world were to cave intomorrow,
I would look back on all the pleasures, excitements andworthwhilenesses
I have been lucky enough to have had. Not the sadness,
not my miscarriages or my father leaving home, but the joy ofeverything else.
It will have been enough.
如果世界明天就毀滅,我會(huì)回顧那些有幸經(jīng)歷的快樂和驚喜,
而不是為悲傷、流產(chǎn)或父親的出走而喟嘆。
回憶開心時(shí)刻就足夠了。
Pick the day. Enjoy it—to the hilt.
The past, I think, has helped me appreciate thepresent —
and I don't want to spoil any of it by frettingabout the future.
珍惜生活,
不管發(fā)生了什么,不管遇見誰都要享受這次經(jīng)歷。
在我看來,過去的經(jīng)歷讓我懂得珍惜現(xiàn)在,
我不愿在對(duì)將來的憂慮中蹉跎眼前的時(shí)光。
My own life has been muchmore than a fairy tale.
I've had my share ofdifficult moments,
but whatever difficulties I've gonethrough,
I've always gotten the prize at theend.
我的人生遠(yuǎn)非童話,我曾經(jīng)經(jīng)歷過艱難時(shí)刻,
但竭盡全力克服困難后,總能最終贏得豐厚的回報(bào)。
Forattractive lips, speak words of kindness.
For lovely eyes, seek out thegood in people.
For a slim figure, share yourfood with the hungry.
For beautiful hair, let achild run his fingers through it once a day.
For poise, walk with theknowledge you'll never walk alone.
若要紅唇誘人,請說友善的話;
若要明眸善睞,請?zhí)綄e人的優(yōu)點(diǎn);
若要身材苗條,請與饑餓的人分享你的食物;
若要秀發(fā)飄飄,那就每天讓孩子的手指梳理一次;
若要儀態(tài)優(yōu)雅,請記住行人不只你一個(gè)。
People, even more thanthings,
have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed andredeemed.
Never throw out anybody.
人之所以為人,是必須從挫折當(dāng)中去奮進(jìn),
從懷念中向往未來,從疾病當(dāng)中恢復(fù)健康,從無知當(dāng)中變得文明,
從極度苦惱當(dāng)中勇敢救贖,不停的自我救贖,
并盡可能的幫助他人。
Remember, if you ever need ahelping hand,
you'll find one at the end of your arm.
As you grow older you willdiscover that you have two hands.
One for helping yourself, the other for helping others.
記住:如果你在任何時(shí)候需要幫助,
你可以在自己的任何一只手臂下找到;
伴隨著你的成長,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你有兩只手,一只用來幫助自己,
另一只用來幫助別人。
Living is like tearingthrough a museum.
Not until later do you really start absorbing what you saw,thinking about it,
looking it up in a book, and remembering ——
because you can't take it in all atonce.
生活就像匆匆在博物館繞一圈,
要過一陣子你才開始吸收你的所見,然后思考它們,看書了解它們,
再記住它們——因?yàn)槟悴荒芤幌伦尤肯?div style="height:15px;">
yet I seemed to accomplish far more than I had ever hoped.
Most of the time it just happened to me without my ever seekingit.
Considering that you have notalent, it's really extraordinary where you've got.
She said it in the middle of all the lovely successes I washaving.
She wasn't putting me down. She was saying how fortunate Iwas.