豆瓣讀書(shū)人多,不管有沒(méi)有孩子,在這個(gè)問(wèn)題上肯定都有自己的想法,我這里寫(xiě)的只是一些個(gè)人體會(huì)。
孩子兩三歲的時(shí)候,我們兩個(gè)人都比較忙,常常拿電視機(jī)當(dāng)保姆,媽媽走得早,我把小家伙每天早上弄起來(lái)穿好衣服,她坐在小椅子上看卡通片,我忙完自己的事,給她吃早飯刷牙,然后推著童車(chē)送她去托兒所。
后來(lái)覺(jué)得該讀點(diǎn)書(shū)了,那時(shí)住城里,圖書(shū)館很近,就去借了不少繪本童書(shū)(picture book), 那種一頁(yè)一張畫(huà)一兩句話的,基本都是媽媽的事,晚上臨睡前讀。后來(lái)過(guò)渡到文字比較多的,象
Dora-Explorer,主人公是一個(gè)拉丁裔小女孩,書(shū)有不少,也有電視系列片。有次她一個(gè)人坐在沙發(fā)上,拿起這本書(shū),一頁(yè)頁(yè)翻,從頭到尾把故事復(fù)述了一遍。我好奇把書(shū)拿過(guò)來(lái),她又再講一遍,一個(gè)字都沒(méi)有錯(cuò)。小孩子喜歡重復(fù),一個(gè)故事可以反反復(fù)復(fù)聽(tīng),我沒(méi)有這個(gè)耐心,所以都要?dú)w功于媽媽。
早期讀書(shū)的一個(gè)經(jīng)驗(yàn)是,大人在給孩子讀的時(shí)候,可以讀到哪里,就用手指著哪個(gè)字,這樣孩子就自然而然認(rèn)字了。她很快就開(kāi)始自己看那種一章章的書(shū)(Chapter Book)。我買(mǎi)了不少名著簡(jiǎn)寫(xiě)本,她看得很投入。我們還連搬帶演,她看完《白鯨》(Moby Dick)后,我們用筷子后面綁細(xì)繩,當(dāng)作捕鯨的漁叉(Harpoon)扔半天。有些人不贊成給孩子看名著簡(jiǎn)寫(xiě)本,我覺(jué)得無(wú)所謂?,F(xiàn)在的孩子太忙,分心事太多,名著,一是看不過(guò)來(lái),二好多其實(shí)也過(guò)時(shí)了。
另外還有一套人物傳記,
whowasbookseries,她也讀了不少。整套書(shū)有一百多人,從古至今,文學(xué)家政治家藝術(shù)家科學(xué)家魔術(shù)師都有,有的我都沒(méi)有聽(tīng)說(shuō)過(guò),可見(jiàn)一個(gè)人知識(shí)的局限。這套書(shū)雖然是非虛構(gòu),她是當(dāng)故事看的。前兩天說(shuō)起美國(guó)大選,我講到里根,她跟我說(shuō)里根當(dāng)救生員的事,就是這套書(shū)里看來(lái)的?!妒酚洝芬彩且槐救宋锖蟼?,從這個(gè)角度,這套書(shū)也可以算歷史入門(mén)書(shū)。
童話書(shū),迪斯尼那些公主,她非常熟,我回國(guó)帶來(lái)些水貨公主玩具,她一個(gè)人能玩好久,換衣服,穿鞋子,還一邊玩一邊自言自語(yǔ)編故事。格林安徒生,她看過(guò)一些,我還特意買(mǎi)了兩本folio society版,她沒(méi)啥興趣。英國(guó)出版社Usborne的書(shū)我喜歡,她也喜歡,這里是亞馬遜上一部分,
illustrated usborne,紙張圖畫(huà)都很好,還有跟細(xì)紅繩書(shū)簽。最近整理書(shū)架,因?yàn)檫@套書(shū)她好幾年不看,我放到她床下的儲(chǔ)物格去,她看到了這兩天又拿出來(lái)在看。
書(shū),我負(fù)責(zé)買(mǎi),看則隨她的興趣。相對(duì)目的性比較強(qiáng)的是,在一二年級(jí)時(shí),我注意讓她多接觸三類(lèi)書(shū):圣經(jīng),希臘羅馬神話,莎士比亞 (我買(mǎi)了幾十本專(zhuān)門(mén)給少兒看的,下面附的書(shū)單里前五本是她相對(duì)愛(ài)讀的)??鬃诱f(shuō)“不學(xué)詩(shī),無(wú)以言”,這三類(lèi)是英語(yǔ)文化的源頭, 英語(yǔ)里的很多明典暗典都是從中而來(lái)。當(dāng)然這些東西到中學(xué)也會(huì)學(xué),但我還是希望孩子早點(diǎn)接觸變成她的知識(shí)背景,而且我自己經(jīng)驗(yàn)是,自己看的比學(xué)校要求的印象深。
雜志。我給她訂閱三種Cricket, Muse, Dig,分別是文學(xué),科學(xué),歷史/考古,其實(shí)是一家出版社的。我自己訂的報(bào)紙雜志,看到有意思的文章,我也和她分享討論。
電子書(shū)/紙書(shū)。我喜歡看紙書(shū),她前兩天說(shuō)我old fashioned,我說(shuō)你舉兩個(gè)例子。她說(shuō),F(xiàn)irst, you don't have iphone。我說(shuō),second呢?她咯咯一笑,說(shuō),Second, you don't know how to use it even you have one。她說(shuō)雖這么說(shuō),自己也喜歡看紙書(shū),出去吃飯喜歡拿本書(shū),上個(gè)衛(wèi)生間先要找本書(shū)。幾年前有次去朋友家聚會(huì),早到了一點(diǎn),正式開(kāi)飯時(shí),找不到她人,最后發(fā)現(xiàn)在樓上主人女兒的房間里,蹲在人家的書(shū)架前看書(shū),地上攤開(kāi)了一堆。
下面這篇是她剛上三年級(jí)時(shí)寫(xiě)的課堂作文,老師給題目是寫(xiě)自己喜歡做的事,她寫(xiě)的是讀書(shū)。
READING
I like to read books that are fantasy, history, and book about animals. Fantasy helps me make up stories and history makes me wonder why. Books on animals capture my interest and make me want to research them further .
Reading clears my mind, taking out bad thoughts and worries .I sometimes smile and laugh at what characters did. Sometimes, I feel sad when characters die or get fatally injured.
I like finding out information from books, like how eggs form or migration patterns. I like being astonished by facts that I read about animals.I also like comparing historic-fiction books to the real history.
My conclusion is that book are very helpful if you are worried about something. It's also good for a pastime because it's relaxing to do and you can do it almost everywhere, any time, anyplace.
下面這些書(shū),是她在二年級(jí)時(shí),要準(zhǔn)備一個(gè)材料,里面要求列出她讀過(guò)的書(shū),媽媽整理出來(lái)的一部分。
The Lion Illustrated Bible for Children by L. Rock
The Children’s Illustrated Bible by S. Hastings
Book of Greek Myths by I. & E. Parin D’Aulaire’s
Greek Myths by A. Turnbull
Shakespeare Stories by L. Garfield
A Child's Book of Poems by G. Fujikawa
Where the Sidewalk Ends by S. Silverstein
Every Thing on It by S. Silverstein
The Complete Tales of Winne-the-Pooh by A.A. Milne
The Wonderful Wizard of Oz by L.K. Baum
Black Beauty by A. Sewell
Charlotte's Web by E. B. White
The Little Mermaid by H.C. Andersen
The Little Prince by A. de Saint-Exupéry
To Kill a Mockingbird by H. Lee
The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien
The Young Folk’s Shelf of Books Fairy Tales and Fables by P.F. Collier & Son Corp.
The Usborne Book of World History by Dr. A. Millard and P. Vanags
The Usborne Children’s Book of Art by R. Dickins
First Science Encyclopedia by DK Publishing
Eyewitness Great Musician by R. Ziegler
Usborne Illustrated Stories and Classic Series (10 books)
Shakespeare Can Be Fun Series (8 books)
American Girl Series (25 books)
Who was book series (40+ books)
Stepping Stones Series (30+ books)
Magic Tree House Series (40+ books)
Rainbow Magic Series (50+ books)