現(xiàn)在讓我來高度你一個啟發(fā)性的故事。一個年輕的男人長的既不帥又沒有錢，但是他每次約會的對象都是高檔次的女人，這是為什么呢？因為許多男人追女人的方式就是通過用他們的真誠感動對方，只要對方愿意喜歡自己他們會奉上他們的一切，但這種方式最終卻不如想象中的有效。這個年輕人卻利用了一種特殊的方式，他將自己最好的一面暴露給對方，使女人從心底里喜歡他，心甘情愿的跟他交往。跟他相比，那些傳統(tǒng)的男人們不太注意自己的條件，他們可能臟、懶、粗魯?shù)鹊龋麄儾粫o女人留下好的第一印象，如果她們每次見到你就心煩，她們怎么可能愿意繼續(xù)跟他交往呢。
Now let me tellyou an inspiring story.A young man was not handsome nor rich, but every time thewoman he could date with would be a high-grade one,why?Because many men chaseafter women by means of moving them with their good fatith, they would give hiswhole world only if the woman would love him,but this way turns out to be notas effective as expected.But this young man utilize this special method, thathe behaved his best aspects to the women, which made the women like him intheir deep heart, they would like to interact with them positively.Comparingwith him, those traditional men don’t care about their own conditions, they manybedirty, lazy,rude and so on, they couldn’t give women a good first impression,howwould they want to continue the relationship with you, if whenever she seesyou, she feels annoyed.
因此男人與女人之間的定律就是吸引力法則。對于男人來說讓女人看見你的球場上生龍活虎的打籃球，比你在雨中等她3個小時更有效果。
So the principlebetween men and women is attraction.It is much better for the men to let hersee you play basketball with vigor and vitality in the playground than standingin the rain to wait for her for 3 hours.
現(xiàn)在你可以得出，在男女之間追求的過程中我們一般是被對方的優(yōu)秀和魅力所吸引，甘愿用我們的熱誠去打動他們。但是，事實上，最好的方式讓我們贏得異性的青睞和真心是讓我們自己變得越來越完美，以至于將對方吸引過來，讓他們甘愿對我們熱忱友好。
Now you coulddeduce that the general phenomenon of the chasing job between men and women is thatwe are attracted by the excellence and charm of the opposite gender, so we wantto move them with our empressement.But in fact, the best way for us to earn theopposite gender’s attention and heart is to make ourselves more and moreperfect, so as to we attract them to us, making them warm and kind to us.
有一種繩子與磁石的定律。對于女人，我們不應(yīng)該表現(xiàn)的跟繩子一樣，希望能夠?qū)⑽覀兊睦瞎蚰杏褍H僅的綁在自己身上，這種方式很容易引起他們的叛逆和厭倦，因為沒有人愿意忍受長時間的缺乏自由。最好的保持長久關(guān)系的方式是永遠不要放棄塑造自我，讓我們自己越來越有魅力和吸引力，這樣我們的伴侶即便是趕都趕不走。
And there is theprinciple about rope and magnet.As for women, we shouldn’t act as a piece ofrope, wanting to bundle your husband or boyfried tightly around you, this waycould easily arouse their rebellion and boredom,nobody couldn’t bear thelong-term constraintion of freedom.They best way to keep eternal relationshipwith them is never to stop building ourselves, making us more and more chamefuland attractive, so our parterner will never leave from us even you expel them.
順便說一句，吸引力法則在職場中同樣適用，只有你自身的條件才能夠真正打動別人，并帶給自己好運，而不是你的逢迎和厚臉皮。
By the way, thisattraction principle is also useful in the occupation.Only your own conditionscould really move others and bring the good opportunities, not your flatteringand your thick skin.
如果你能夠每天表現(xiàn)出自己最好的一面，你將成為情場和職場中的贏家。
If you performthe best aspects every day, you will the winner both in the love and in thecareer.
