一、努力的人生才是最好的，不要在花一樣的年紀(jì)荒廢了青春，真正能激勵(lì)我們前行的并不是勵(lì)志語錄，而是身邊朋友的積極上進(jìn)與充滿正能量的人同行！
Hard life is the best. Don't waste your youth at the same age. It's not inspirational quotations that really inspire us to move forward, but the positive progress of the friends around us and walking with the people full of positive energy!
大圖模式 二、人生沒有過不去的事情，只有過不去的心情。今天再大的事，到了明天就是小事；今年再大的事，到了明年就是故事。我們最多也就是個(gè)有故事的人，所以，人生就像蒲公英，看似自由，卻身不由己。有些事，不是不在意，而是在意了又能怎樣？做好自己該做的事和想做的事，一切無愧于心，如此，就好There is nothing in life that can't be passed, only the mood that can't be passed. What is big today is small tomorrow; what is big this year is a story next year. We are at most a storyteller, so life is like dandelion, seemingly free, but involuntarily. Some things, not do not care, but care about what can be? Do your best to do what you should and want to do, and be worthy of your conscience. That's all.
大圖模式 三、人，最怕：深交后的陌生；認(rèn)真后的痛苦；信任后的利用；溫柔后的冷漠。有時(shí)候，適合你的那個(gè)人其實(shí)一直在那兒，只是那些錯(cuò)的人擋住了你的視線，你才沒有看見。People are most afraid of: strangers after deep friendship; pains after earnest; use after trust; indifference after gentleness. Sometimes, the person who suits you is always there, but the wrong person blocked your sight, and you didn't see it.
大圖模式 四、每個(gè)人都是人，都有著人性善與惡，我們永遠(yuǎn)不能因?yàn)閷?duì)方表現(xiàn)得善良，而忘記了他也有人性的弱點(diǎn)。不想一個(gè)人，可又不能隨便找一個(gè)人，最后還是先一個(gè)人，就這樣一個(gè)人好久，慢慢的習(xí)慣了一個(gè)人。Everyone is human and has good and evil human nature. We can never forget that he has human weaknesses because the other side behaves kindly. I don't want to be alone, but I can't find anyone at will. Finally, I'll be the first one. So I've been used to a person for a long time.
大圖模式 五、任何得到都有代價(jià)，任何野心的實(shí)現(xiàn)都需點(diǎn)滴的積累。記住是自己選的，也就不要有怨言。有的事情讓我們很是無助，有的事情讓我們很是無語，可是不管是你遇到怎樣的艱難，能否挺過去，取決于對(duì)自己的信心。換個(gè)角度看問題：毛毛蟲所謂的世界末日，恰恰就是蝴蝶破繭而出的充滿陽光的時(shí)刻。Every gain comes at a price, and every ambition needs to be accumulated bit by bit. Keep in mind that you chose it yourself, so don't complain. Some things make us very helpless, some things make us very speechless, but no matter what difficulties you encounter, whether you can survive depends on your confidence. Another way to look at it: Caterpillars call the end of the world the moment when butterflies burst out of their cocoons full of sunshine.
大圖模式 六、喜歡上你，并不是你長的好不好看的原因，而是你在特殊的時(shí)間里給了我別人給不了的感覺。至于未來會(huì)怎樣，要用力走下去才知道，記住，不要輕易放棄，自己的命運(yùn)在自己手中，跌倒失敗有何懼，只要干不死，就往死里干，反正路還長，天總會(huì)亮。It's not because you look good or not that you like you. It's because you give me a feeling that others can't give me at a special time. As for what will happen in the future, we need to work hard to know. Remember, don't give up easily. Your destiny is in your own hands. What's your fear of falling down? As long as you can't die, you'll go to death. Anyway, the road is still long and the sky will shine.
大圖模式 七、可以堅(jiān)持自己的夢(mèng)想，再辛苦也值得。 我累了，你拒絕了我的愛，讓我一個(gè)人承受想你的痛，我真的很煩躁，不知道怎么樣去面對(duì)你，說好的一輩子，說好的要白頭偕老，可是一個(gè)轉(zhuǎn)身你卻一個(gè)人丟下我走了。It's worthwhile to stick to your dreams. I am tired, you refused my love, let me bear the pain of missing you alone, I am really upset, do not know how to face you, said good life, said good to grow old together, but a turn you left me alone.
大圖模式 八、其實(shí)誰都不想發(fā)脾氣，賭氣不過是為了看看對(duì)方會(huì)為自己退讓多少空間。我們都有這樣一個(gè)習(xí)慣，鬧矛盾時(shí)喜歡說話帶刺，喜歡不理不睬。懂得你的人會(huì)為你放下架子，不懂你的人，維持了僵局，失望的只有你自己。Actually, no one wants to lose his temper. He just wants to see how much space the other party will give up for himself. We all have such a habit that we like to talk prickly and ignore when we are in conflict. The person who knows you will put down the shelf for you, the person who doesn't know you will maintain the deadlock, and the only person who is disappointed is yourself.
大圖模式 九、只是兩人什么都沒說，我總覺得那時(shí)候于淼再多點(diǎn)自信，閨蜜再多點(diǎn)勇氣，也許這段故事就可以早點(diǎn)到達(dá)令人滿意的結(jié)局。所謂的公平，只不過是一個(gè)冠冕堂皇的謊言，一切的一切都只是建立在強(qiáng)者之上，對(duì)于弱者來說，只不過是無謂的掙扎But they didn't say anything. I always felt that Yuzhao had more confidence and courage at that time. Maybe this story could reach a satisfactory conclusion earlier. The so-called fairness is just a grand lie. Everything is built on the strong. For the weak, it is just a meaningless struggle.
大圖模式 十、人與人之間矛盾大部分的來源都是高估了自己在對(duì)方心中的地位，把陌生人當(dāng)熟人，熟人當(dāng)朋友，朋友當(dāng)親人，戀人當(dāng)愛人，愛人不當(dāng)人。過了界，讓對(duì)方不舒服是小事，最后失望的其實(shí)是我們自己。Most of the contradictions between people come from overestimating their position in each other's heart. They regard strangers as acquaintances, acquaintances as friends, friends as relatives, lovers as lovers, and lovers as inappropriate people. It's a trivial matter to cross the border and make the other party uncomfortable. It's ourselves who are disappointed in the end.
大圖模式 十一、有時(shí)候想找人說說話，于是一遍遍翻看手機(jī)里的電話簿，卻不知道可以給誰發(fā)個(gè)短信或打個(gè)電話，最后還是按下了“清除”。其實(shí)很想找個(gè)人傾訴一下，卻又不知從何說起，最終的最終是什么也不說，告訴自己，明天就好了。Sometimes I want to talk to someone, so I look through the phone book again and again, but I don't know who I can send a short message or make a phone call to, and finally I press "Clear up". In fact, I really want to find someone to talk about it, but I don't know where to start. In the end, I don't say anything. Tell myself that tomorrow will be good.
大圖模式 十二、只是我終于知道很多事不是希望就可以如愿以償，正如我們不諳世事時(shí)也曾幻想能否一起攜手到老。But I finally know that many things can not be fulfilled by hope, just as when we are not familiar with the world, we also had fantasies about whether we can join hands in old age.
大圖模式 十三、一個(gè)人的精神生活，最終想法始終是他自己和天主之間的秘密。我可以笑著給你講道理，也可以翻臉告訴你什么叫規(guī)矩。生活只要真實(shí)、踏實(shí)，并且一直在變好，我們就應(yīng)該知足和感恩。The ultimate idea of a person's spiritual life is always the secret between himself and God. I can laugh and reason with you, or turn my face and tell you what rules are. As long as life is real, down-to-earth, and has been improving, we should be satisfied and grateful.
大圖模式 十四、再喜歡也不要舊情復(fù)燃，從他忍心傷害你的那一刻起，他就確信生活中沒你會(huì)更好了。你可以繼續(xù)喜歡他，但答應(yīng)我，千萬千萬不要再愛了。斬?cái)嘧约和寺?，才能更好地贏得出路。很多時(shí)候，我們都需要一種斬?cái)嘧约和寺返挠職狻Ｒ驗(yàn)樯砗笥型寺?，就?huì)心存僥幸和安逸，身后無退路，才會(huì)為自己贏得出路。No matter how much you like it or how old it is, from the moment he has the heart to hurt you, he is sure that life would be better without you. You can continue to like him, but promise me never to love again. Cut off your own way out, in order to better win the way out. Many times, we need a kind of courage to cut ourselves off. Because if there is a way out behind you, you will be lucky and comfortable. If there is no way out behind you, you will win the way out for yourself.
大圖模式 十五、決定了要走的路就不要頻頻回頭，糾結(jié)過去的結(jié)果只會(huì)讓自己止步不前。不屬于你的不要硬擠，頭破血流也沒意義，等你足夠強(qiáng)大，相應(yīng)的會(huì)主動(dòng)來吸納你。If you decide on the way to go, don't look back frequently. Twisting the results of the past will only stop you from moving forward. Don't squeeze the circles that don't belong to you. It doesn't make sense to break your head and bleed. When you are strong enough, the corresponding circles will take the initiative to absorb you.
大圖模式 十六、生命在于靜止。你看王八都活多少年了。若總被忽視，又何必作賤了自己；若不被珍惜，又何必苦苦去維系。Life lies in stillness. Look how many years Wang Badu has lived. If they are always neglected, why should they be humiliated? If they are not treasured, why should they suffer to maintain.
